1. Umfazi wokuqala (indlunkulu) ngowakini. Uqondene nomnikazi wesibongo. Uzala inkosana or inkosazana.
2. Umfazi wesibili (ikunene, abanye bathi ikhohlo kuya ngezindawo) ngokayihlo. Uyena oshaya umthetho uma kunezingxabano alungise. Akayizali inkosana, nenkosazana.
3. Umfazi wesithathu (iQadi). Lo-mfazi ngowakho uyazilobolela wena. Iqadi aliyizali inkosana, nenkosazana. Umsebenzi weQadi ukusiza/ ukwelekelela indlunkulu ingabi ntekenteke, ikwazi ukwengamela ukwenza umsebenzi wayo wokwengamela umuzi. Uma bengekho abafana endlunkulu, abafana baseQadini kuphatha bona.
Emandulo indoda esuthayo ibiqhubeka iganwe inwebe igceke bedlule eshumini abafazi.
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NgokwesiXhosa iQadi neXhiba ngamalalela, ayayizala inkosana ngokudalwa, ukuba inkosana ayikho kwindlu eNkulu.